Online Dating For 30 Year Olds

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The Best Dating Apps To Use In Your 30s

The concept of using a dating app to meet someone to spend the rest of your life with could strike you differently in your 30s than it did in your 20s, to borrow a piece of online terminology. In fact, according to a Pew Research Center research from 2019, nearly half of 18-to-29-year-olds had attempted online dating, compared to only 38% of 30 to 49-year-olds. Dating apps, however, are still a terrific method to meet people in your 30s, according to Dr. Marissa Tunis, a certified psychologist, and dating coach. You simply have to figure out which ones will give you the best matches.

As you age, big picture things tend to demand more of your time — your career, caretaking of your parents or other family members, and so on, leaving less time for meeting new people. “As people age and social opportunities naturally wane, dating apps actually become more valuable as a way to meet other single people,” Dr. Tunis, tells Bustle. According to Tunis, people in their 30s are thinking about their lives in more serious ways. You’re dealing with more responsibility, you know what you want, and you’re looking for someone else who does too.

“People in their 30s are more prone to think about the qualities that make a good mate rather than having a good time,” Tunis says. “They’ve grown up enough to make better decisions about how they live their lives and who they choose to be with, so now is an excellent time to meet a long-term partner.”

The Best Dating Apps To Use In Your 30s

There are a plethora of dating apps available right now, whether you’re seeking for a fun date to your bestie’s wedding or a long-term relationship. Tunis claims that “the big three” are just as good to utilize in your 30s as they are in your 20s if you want to get the most out of your time and effort. If you’re serious about finding a devoted relationship, it also doesn’t hurt to invest in your love life by upgrading to paid services.

1. Hinge

Hinge is the dating app that was “intended to be deleted,” as the name suggests. “If you’re searching for a monogamous relationship in the United States,” Tunis says, “people these days tend to start with Hinge.” Unlike Tinder or Bumble, daters are asked to respond to intriguing suggestions such as “I’m curiously attracted to…” or “I geek out over…” These can offer you an excellent understanding of someone’s personality, and a shared sense of humor can help you establish chemistry quickly. It’s a match if you like something in their profile and they like something in yours.

2. Tinder

As you likely know, Tinder is the app where you swipe right to indicate interest (and left to discreetly say, “no thanks”). Once you make a match, you can start messaging back and forth. It’s free and simple to use, which is partly why, according to a May 2021 Statista report, it’s the most popular dating app worldwide. If you’re dating to find a lasting partnership, more people equals more potential dates and a better chance at finding love. Plus, if you’re taking some trips you postponed in the last two years, “Tinder has some great travel features,” Tunis says.

3. Bumble

Bumble is another popular dating app with a simple interface. Bumble, according to Tunis, is a wonderful alternative because it puts women in charge and offers a lot of filters if you want to be extremely selective. Women have 24 hours to make the first move by sending a message in a heterosexual match, or the match will terminate. Bumble has about 42 million monthly active users as of January 2021. This is a wonderful tool to use if you enjoy how Tinder works but want greater control over who messages you.

4. Match

Match, the original online dating site, was created with serious daters in mind. Users are requested to complete a series of questions about themselves and their preferences, unlike other applications that only demand a few photographs and a profile. After that, the Match algorithm will show you the best selections that match both your profile and your expressed preferences.

“Paying for the app is important regardless of which app you use; you will gain more visibility with your purchase,” Tunis argues. “Invest the $20 a month if you’re serious about finding someone.” Simply make sure your photos are well-chosen and your profile is well-written (a friend or coach may help! ), and you’ll be OK.”